Scientific evidence: Saying "I love you" to the opposite sex every day can greatly increase your success rate?

Author: Duan Yuechu

In the wonderful and complex world of love, countless people are struggling to find the secret to winning the heart of the person they love. Today, let's talk about a seemingly ordinary but meaningful action: saying "I love you" to the person you are pursuing every day. Why can this greatly increase the success rate of your pursuit?

On July 20, NeuroImage, an authoritative journal of neuroimaging, published an article online. The title of this article is "Higher emotional synchronization is modulated by relationship quality in romantic relationships and not in close friendships". This is the research result completed by Wei Zhengde, a special associate researcher in the Department of Psychology of the University of Science and Technology of China, and Professor Zhang Xiaochu. This research is amazing. It is like a key that opens the door to the neural mechanism connection between romantic relationship quality and emotional synchronization. In the field of emotional neuroscience, it provides everyone with a new perspective and ideas. It is like suddenly opening up a new path in a foggy forest, allowing later researchers to continue exploring in this direction. Experts all say that this research result is of great significance to the in-depth understanding of emotional interaction in love.

Love is such a fascinating and unpredictable human emotion. When we embark on the journey of pursuing love with a burning heart, of course there must be some effective methods. Expressing love to the person you like every day is a great strategy. Think about it, it's like giving the other person a bouquet of flowers with sincerity every day. Each "I love you" is a petal. Slowly, these petals can be woven into a bouquet full of love, bringing us one step closer to the love we dream of.

Expressing love to the person you are pursuing every day will create many opportunities for both parties to communicate. In this process, just like two explorers sharing their treasures with each other, each party can share their thoughts, feelings and experiences. In this way, you can have a deeper understanding of each other. This in-depth understanding is like a solid bridge that can bring the hearts of two people closer. The other party can see more of your shining star-like advantages, and you can also know the other party's preferences and needs more clearly, so when pursuing, you can cater to their preferences and be more targeted.

Sincerely saying "I love you" is like building a bridge of trust between the pursuer and the pursued. If you express your feelings so sincerely every day, over time, the other person will feel that your love is so sincere and deep, just like a jar of aged wine, the more you taste it, the more fragrant it becomes. Trust is crucial in love. Once the seeds of trust take root in the other person's heart, he/she will be more likely to accept your pursuit, and the buds of love will have a chance to thrive.

From a physiological point of view, when we express love to the opposite sex, the brain will secrete a hormone called "oxytocin". This thing is magical, like a little emotional magician, it can make the emotional connection between two people closer. Every time you say "I love you", this hormone will quietly play a role, making both parties' blood boil, and love fluids flow out, bringing a sense of pleasure to both of you, just like sowing a handful of seeds of happiness in your heart, making each other more relaxed, happy and comfortable when getting along. This positive physiological reaction is like a magnet, which will make the opposite sex being pursued more willing to get close to you. In this way, doesn't the possibility of pursuing success greatly increase?

Continuously expressing love is like an emotional dance training. In this process, two people will slowly form a tacit understanding in emotional communication, just like the spiritual resonance between two dancers. For example, you may have similar views on the same thing, or at certain moments, you can understand what the other person is thinking without saying anything. This tacit understanding is like an invisible thread that pulls the relationship between the two of you closer and closer, allowing the person being pursued to feel the unique emotional connection between you, as if you are the people who understand each other best in the world.

Psychologists have found that oxytocin is not a small role in human emotional relationships. It is more than a simple hormone in the process of expressing love. It is like an emotional catalyst that can stimulate emotional intimacy between people and make it easier for both parties to establish a deep emotional connection. This theoretically provides strong support for the idea that expressing love every day can increase the success rate of pursuit, just like building a solid foundation for this view.

From a sociological perspective, in the process of pursuing love and establishing an intimate relationship, frequent expressions of love can give both parties a strong sense of belonging. For the opposite sex being pursued, feeling the strong and continuous love from the pursuer, they will feel that they are unique and extremely cherished in the other person's heart, just like a precious gem placed in the safest and most conspicuous place. This sense of belonging is like a spring breeze, driving the intimate relationship forward.

Medical research has also found a very interesting phenomenon. Confessions of love have a positive effect on the body, just like injecting a healthy energy into the body. For example, it can lower blood pressure and slow down heart rate. Think about it, when we are pursuing the opposite sex, if the other party sees that we are in such a healthy and positive state, they will definitely be more fond of us. This is undoubtedly like adding another weight to the scale of our pursuit of success.

Continuous confession can make the emotional concentration between the two parties become more and more rich, just like a slow-cooked soup. Each confession is like adding a spoonful of delicious seasoning to the soup, and as time goes by, the emotion becomes more and more mellow. For the opposite sex being pursued, this slowly deepening emotion is like a gentle net, making it increasingly difficult for them to give up their connection with you, and they are more inclined to accept your pursuit.

As the confession deepens, the intimacy between the two parties will gradually deepen like a vine. This intimacy is not just about physical proximity, but more importantly, it is about deep emotional integration. In this process, you are like the roots of two trees, slowly entwined together, forming a close emotional bond. This bond will bind you tightly together, making the opposite sex being pursued more and more emotionally dependent on you, so the possibility of success in pursuit is greater.

Long-term love confession can also allow both parties to reach a wonderful state of spiritual connection in emotional communication. It is like two souls meeting in a quiet garden, and they can deeply understand and feel each other's emotional world. When the opposite sex being pursued finds that they have such a deep spiritual resonance with you, they will be more accepting of the emotional relationship between you, as if they have found the other half who fits with their soul, so your chances of success in pursuit will be greatly increased.

So, saying "I love you" to the opposite sex you are pursuing every day is a behavior with many positive effects. Whether from the perspective of psychology, sociology or health, there is a solid scientific basis behind it. On the road of pursuing love, don't hesitate, be brave to express your love, and let the flower of love bloom brilliantly in the sincere confession.

The author is a member of the Beijing China Future Research Society and a member of the China Science Writers Association.