Who in your circle of friends do you most want to “blacklist”?
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WeChat has become a network platform for people to interact with each other and show themselves, and it records the joys, sorrows, anger and happiness of each friend. Send voice, input text, upload pictures, write your mood, and post your food, clothing, housing, transportation, parties and travel as a souvenir. But when everyone thinks that WeChat circle is still a pure land, some behaviors in the circle of friends will cause dissatisfaction among many friends; when everyone thinks that they can express their various states as they please, many parents born in the 1980s and 1990s have also joined the circle of friends. Who are the people who are most likely to be "blacklisted"? Parents who care too much about their children At the beginning of this year, Xiao Chang bought a smart phone for her mother and installed QQ, WeChat and other software on the phone. She also applied for a WeChat account for her mother, taught her how to use WeChat, and added her as a friend. Xiao Chang said: "I thought that teaching my mother how to use WeChat would help her kill her free time. I work in another city, and we can often use WeChat voice chat to save the phone calls. It's very convenient. I didn't expect that after my mother learned to use WeChat, I would be the first to be "monitored". As long as I had any "problems", she would write on the message board, "This is not good, that is not okay". Sometimes, as soon as I posted a status, my mother called and asked about everything." Chen Chao, a junior in college, had the same feeling as Xiao Chang. He said: "My parents are among my WeChat friends, and sometimes I have to be cautious when posting a photo or status. For example, once I posted a photo of a group of classmates going out, and my mother targeted a girl standing next to me, "Is this your girlfriend? I was completely devastated at the time..." Chen Chao blocked his parents for a while and didn't let them see the Moments. "Later, my mother asked me why I couldn't see your status in the dynamics anymore? I had no choice but to change it back." Chen Chao said. Most people born in the 1980s and 1990s have "blocked" their parents and are unwilling to let them join their circle of friends. There are several main reasons for this: first, they want their friends to see their lives, moods, and emotions, but do not want to expose these to their parents; second, they are afraid that their parents will worry if they post bad news about their lives; and third, they are impatient with their parents' frequent interactions. Xiao Chang's mother said: "I just want to pay more attention to my child. I'm not with me all year round, but I can see even if she sends a message or a status, so I know how she's doing recently and learn about her recent work and life." Mr. Li didn't understand his child's idea: "We were also young, when technology was not well developed, and we talked to our parents face to face. Now we have these software, and we thought we could narrow the distance between children and parents, but we didn't expect it to be further away. In fact, we just want to understand their lives, try to understand their jokes and complaints, and narrow the distance, not to interfere with their privacy." Crazy and obsessed like party Since there are often various likes collection activities in WeChat circle, those friends who are keen to participate in the like collection are like crazy. "Get 58 likes to get a spa experience coupon", "Get 188 likes to get a hair dye or perm" and various activities are full of screens. Miaomiao from Xiaoshan hates those who love to collect likes in their Moments. He said: "Every time I open WeChat Moments, I see a few friends collecting likes for this or that. It's really annoying. Regardless of the authenticity of the likes, at least don't fill your Moments with messages asking for likes." Miaomiao also said, "Sometimes I get angry and directly blacklist them and stop looking at their Moments. After a period of quiet time, if they post less, I will blacklist them." Xiaoyu is not so lucky. When talking about the like-collecting party, tears well up in his eyes. Some time ago, a junior high school classmate who he didn't contact very often sent him a WeChat message. At that time, Xiaoyu was very happy, thinking that this old friend still remembered him and took the initiative to contact him. When he opened the message and saw the four big words "Thank you for the likes", Xiaoyu instantly felt a sense of loss. "Well, thanks to the 'like-collecting post' she remembered that she had a friend like me." Xiao Yu said, "I naively thought that as long as I didn't open the post to read the advertisements and like-collecting posts that filled the Moments, I would be free. I didn't expect that the crazy like-collecting posts would pull me into their temporary WeChat group and leave a message saying 'like-collecting, click to exit, thank you'. Hey, how come these friends have gone crazy? I really wanted to block them at that time." A good-tempered person like Xiao Yu is already very kind to the like-collecting posts. Netizen "William W" said: "I have met several friends who are like-collecting posts. We rarely contact each other. All they send are like-collecting messages, so I decisively block them. Now my Moments is much quieter." Friends who post advertisements crazily In addition to those "hateful" like-collecting posts, the ones that WeChat friends hate the most are probably those friends who fill the Moments with advertisements. I often find that there are suddenly more business people in my WeChat "friend circle": some "friends" frequently show off high-imitation luxury bags, and some push new clothes and food, and help to buy foreign cosmetics... "Every time I scroll, they are all selling high-imitations, and they fill the entire screen. Sometimes I really want to block these people. Everyone was originally sharing their own things in the friend circle, but it has become a tool for some people to make money." 24-year-old Xixi complained, "There are a few of my good friends, and I don’t know when they started to do part-time shopping and selling clothes. Sometimes when I open the friend circle, it is full of pictures, which wastes my data. I can’t even see my friends’ normal status..." Netizen "Moxia" said: "The friend circle has become an advertising circle. I use WeChat simply to chat and see friends’ updates, not to see ads. Dear friend, you have sent so many ads, should I block you or not? You only know how to do friends’ business. What can you do if you become a local tyrant!" In addition, there are some rumor parties, those who don't forward to kill relatives and curse them, chicken soup parties, selfie parties, etc. All kinds of weird gangs are the ones that everyone hates the most and wants to block. "We used to post and like posts to find a sense of existence, but now we feel empty in the vast circle of friends." One netizen lamented. As a winner of Toutiao's Qingyun Plan and Baijiahao's Bai+ Plan, the 2019 Baidu Digital Author of the Year, the Baijiahao's Most Popular Author in the Technology Field, the 2019 Sogou Technology and Culture Author, and the 2021 Baijiahao Quarterly Influential Creator, he has won many awards, including the 2013 Sohu Best Industry Media Person, the 2015 China New Media Entrepreneurship Competition Beijing Third Place, the 2015 Guangmang Experience Award, the 2015 China New Media Entrepreneurship Competition Finals Third Place, and the 2018 Baidu Dynamic Annual Powerful Celebrity. |
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