After reading "Front End, Why Don't I Want You"

After reading the article "Front-end, Why I Don't Want You", I was deeply touched and felt heavy in my heart. There are two reasons for the heaviness, one is shame, and the other is sigh.

The reason for shame is that I let my guard down. I should be like a soldier holding a submachine gun, always sober, and stick to my duties to defend the motherland. I am ashamed that my ambition has stagnated and I am heading for the trough of life. I am about to be abandoned, and my own value is difficult to realize. I am powerless to turn the tide by my own strength. But I suddenly realized that when I was wandering in the trough, others might be looking at me from the peak, and when I was looking at me from the peak, others might be wandering in the trough. I can't look down on myself because I am in the trough. It is inevitable that there will be ups and downs in life. I can't deny others just because I am looking at it from the peak. Everyone climbs from the trough to the peak. Everyone knows the hardships along the way. And everyone's choices are different. I want to stay in the trough and live a happy life, I want to enjoy the scenery halfway up the mountain, and I want to overlook the earth from the peak. These are all other people's choices. How hard I work and how diligent I am is my own business. I can't ask others to be the same as me. The world is so big that there are all kinds of things. But who has the ability to ask others to be the same as themselves? If others are the same as themselves, they are either as good as you or better than you.

The reason for sighing is that human life is so short, why should we be so tired. Some people may think that you are just finding all kinds of reasons and excuses for yourself not to make progress. Some time ago, an employee of the company died suddenly, and everyone understands the reason. When a person dies, everything is over, and the family is the one who suffers. While you are alive, do what you want to do, don't leave regrets for yourself, and don't let your family regret. I am the master of my own life. As long as my family is healthy and happy, is there anything happier than this? Some people may think that I am starting to find reasons and excuses again. I am not looking for reasons or excuses, I am just stating the facts and explaining my thoughts. Well, actually I am just afraid of death...

Not only do I not oppose the OP, I also think he is very inspiring. How many people change four jobs in two years and earn 16K? Yes, there must be many such talents. But there are more people like us who work silently but don't achieve such results. In summary, many of our compatriots feel violated and insulted. This is just my exaggeration. I don't feel violated or insulted. I just think that if the OP changes the way of speaking, others may accept it. Nowadays, people generally sympathize with the weak. If you use a sniper rifle to sweep away thousands of troops, others will use nuclear weapons to gallop thousands of horses. Although "human nature is good at the beginning", the weaknesses of human nature are in front of us. If I do something wrong and you keep blaming me, I will think that there is something wrong with you and you are not generous enough. If you say it is your fault, I will feel guilty and feel that I have implicated you. This is the art of speaking. Different ways of speaking about the same thing will lead to different results.

Everyone has his own independent thoughts and ways of dealing with things. But being a little humble is always right, and it will always make people like you more. There is no such thing as doing something just to please others. Sharing happiness with others is also sharing happiness with yourself. The humility of a big shot makes people feel ashamed. I think people can be divided into several categories: approachable big shot, grumpy big shot, approachable side dish, grumpy side dish, approachable ordinary people, grumpy ordinary people. This is just my extreme classification, and it does not mean that there are really these few categories of people.

We are like a group of landlubbers gathered by the river, all eager to try. But the water is too deep, and we can only swim comfortably after we have mastered the skill of swimming. The journey is too long, why not go forward together? Please take good care of yourself while moving forward, health and happiness are the most important.