Insights | Treating others well is a kind of personal charm

Famous Artists Gallery | Albert Marche, one of the early Fauvist painters, was also a realist painter.

Only sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity.

Someone once said: A gentleman is like jade. A person who treats others well is like a piece of warm and beautiful jade.

Even after going through many ups and downs, it will not change his open-mindedness and broad mind, nor will it change his nature and sincerity of tolerance for others.

Making others feel comfortable does not mean lowering your own bottom line to cater to other people's needs, but being able to take into account other people's emotions from the bottom of your heart, and being considerate and caring.

"There is a way forward when there is talent in your eyes, and there is a limit when there is love in your heart."

People who treat others well can always bring warmth and love to others, gain admiration and praise, and invisibly display their charm to the fullest.

I have seen such a story:

A mother asked her daughter to hand her a pair of scissors while she was cutting clothes. The daughter handed the scissors to her without paying attention and ended up poking her mother with the tip of the scissors.

The mother said to her daughter, "When you hand something to someone, you should think about whether it is convenient for them to receive it. When you hand over the tip of a knife, they have to turn it over carefully. They might accidentally poke them. So next time you hand something over, you must think about the other person, especially when you hand over items like knives and scissors."

Many times, upbringing is reflected in the ordinary little things and has nothing to do with academic qualifications or talent.

A truly educated person can always put himself in other people's shoes and give others considerate care.

Know how to give others some room to retreat, show silent respect, and don't embarrass others.

The awareness of tolerance and the magnanimity in treating others are both manifestations of education.

Famous Gallery | Albert Marche

To truly make others feel comfortable is not about deliberate and artificial words, nor is it about hypocritical consideration and concern, nor is it about a false face when seeking benefits.

To truly make others feel comfortable is to take the other person’s emotions into consideration from the bottom of your heart, not to embarrass the other person intentionally, to be concerned about everything, and to respect the other person at all times.

In fact, each of us longs to be treated gently. Only when we make others feel comfortable can we gain their love and warmth.

There is a saying: "When writing reaches its peak, there is nothing special about it, it is just right; when character reaches its peak, there is nothing different about it, it is just natural."

Life is not a boxing match, and there is no need to compete for superiority. When we care about each other more, we can find the true care for each other among the crowd.

Famous Gallery | Albert Marche

So how can we make people feel comfortable?

Always remember the kindness of others.

The emotions between people are mutual. I give you a bowl of water, and you will give me a cool summer.

I am grateful to all the people who have appeared in my life. They enrich our time and make us have infinite vision for the future.

A person who can truly appreciate the strengths of others is humble, generous, and broad-minded.

When we learn to appreciate others, we will naturally gain others' praise and appreciation for ourselves.

Being able to feel other people’s difficulties is caring, being able to understand other people’s hardships is generosity, and being able to forgive other people’s mistakes is magnanimity.

When we understand that only sincerity can be exchanged for sincerity, it is no longer difficult to treat others comfortably and considerately.

Being able to make others feel comfortable is not only a great ability, but also a high-level accomplishment.

Everyone in this world deserves to be treated kindly.

Anchor | Zhang Daxin

Author: Hidden, the stars in the sky are not as bright as your eyes Source: Poetry World (ID: shicitiandi)

Auditor: Ge Subiao

Producer: An Tao, Wu Weiling

Editors: Li Ang, Zhou Zhe, Yuan Hengrui

Art Design: Zhao Danyang

Interns: Li Qi, Jiang Longqing, Yang Xing, Man Xinglian

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