Why do we become more irritable towards people we are closest to? The truth behind this is…

This article was reviewed by Dr. Tao Ning, Associate Professor at the National Institute

I don't know if you have had this experience.

Always be polite and grateful in front of others

Only in front of the people closest to you

Can't control my temper

Always "hurtful words"

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Why is this?

Come and see

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turn out to be

In relationships with the closest people

It will produce a feeling of attachment and hurt

When one of you is hurt

When you feel pain

I will expect the other person to give me some comfort.

If the other party doesn't get your point

I couldn't go up to comfort you.

This is when attachment damage occurs.

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This injury is a traumatic event

It will hurt the relationship

If it is not processed in time

A vicious cycle will continue

Until the relationship gets worse

When attachment is hurt

Not only affects mood

It will also make you feel inferior

In fact, this kind of attachment damage can be avoided.

Just express your emotions correctly

Don't keep the other person guessing

Express what you need

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