What does PUA man mean? What does PuA mean for a man?

Now, pua boy is a very popular term, which mainly refers to boys who are particularly good at picking up girls. This kind of boys are very familiar with some tricks of picking up girls and can easily make girls fall into it. So what are the general characteristics of pua boys?

What does PUA man mean? What does PuA mean for a man?

To put it simply, a pua man is a master at picking up girls and has first-class skills in picking up girls. Naive and naive girls can easily fall into the trap of a pua man. PUA, the full name of which is Pick-up Artist, originally referred to a group of men who had received systematic learning, practice, and continuous self-improvement of their emotional intelligence. Later, it generally refers to men and women who are very good at attracting and fascinated by the opposite sex.

Literally speaking, PUA refers to a pick-up artist, but due to the changes and progress of PUA culture, the definition of PUA has expanded from simple pick-up to the entire process of interaction between men and women. PUA has developed into a social theory that mainly involves: chatting up (initial acquaintance), attraction (interaction), establishing contact, upgrading relationships, until intimate contact occurs and a relationship between the two sexes is confirmed. It is a new interdisciplinary subject composed of psychology and behavioral science.

Five characteristics of a pua man

1. Show off your wealth

The characteristics of pua men include the habit of packaging themselves as successful people, and being keen on showing off luxury cars, luxury houses, and wealth in their circle of friends in order to attract the attention of girls.

2. Being busy for no reason

The pua man always looks busy, but you don’t know what he is busy with. The responses you get all day long are either he is working overtime or he is having social engagements. Anyway, he has no time to be with you. In fact, when they are pursuing you, they want to stick to you every minute, but after they get you, they don’t care much and are not willing to spend more time on you.

3. Act calmer

No matter whether something good or bad happens to you, PUA men appear incredibly calm, even a little indifferent. Compared to the initial care, hospitality and greetings, it now feels like I am getting along with a stranger. What's worse is that when you call them, they are playing missing.

4. Perfunctory

They start to treat everything perfunctorily. They don’t have the patience to coax you, nor do they have the patience to argue. “I was wrong, okay?” “Even if it’s my fault?” “Just consider it my problem”, these words become their mantras. Because my heart is no longer here, it doesn’t matter what you say.

5. Play dumb

Even though he knows what you are saying, he pretends not to understand. His innocent look almost makes people believe it. No matter what you are talking about, he has to wait for you to explain and remind him for a long time before he pretends to suddenly understand something. His ability to play dumb is simply first-rate.

What are the tricks of pua men

1. When you first meet him, he behaves mysteriously and gentlemanly, which arouses your interest in getting to know him better. Most of the time, he appears disguised as some kind of high-ranking elite or professional.

2. A carefully decorated circle of friends. If you get to know a boy and look through his circle of friends, every post is close to perfect. I'm either working out, working hard or traveling. I love animals, food, and have a talent. I don't have any negative energy. Then please be vigilant!

3. Online chatting is either selling a persona or teasing your emotions. He tries to tease your emotions to make it seem like what he says is interesting, but in fact he just wants to pretend that he has an interesting soul. Selling a character actually further strengthens your liking for him.

4. Pretending to be an ambitious man or tall, rich and handsome, but actually having average or no financial resources at all.

5. Once they are found out to be wrong, PUA men have a core trick, which is to cry to gain sympathy or act pitiful.

How can girls guard against PUA men?

1. Affirm your own value. You must remember that only by affirming your own value first can you not let others' evaluations limit your feelings and truly enjoy love.

2. Set emotional bottom lines. The bottom line is a ruler that keeps you sober in a relationship. People who truly respect you and the relationship will not force you to break your bottom line.

3. Be wary of fast pace. Falling in love at first sight and getting married quickly sounds wonderful, but in reality there are very few examples of happy endings.

4. Learn to pause and reflect. The key is to detach yourself from the current relationship and reflect on the current progress and status of the relationship from an outsider's perspective.

5 Be wary of strangers you meet in unfamiliar environments. This does not mean that we should reject all kindness, but we should not be defenseless. It's time to break some fantasies of fate.

6. Seek equal status. Equality means that both parties in a relationship respect each other, major decisions are discussed with each other, the personalities of both parties remain independent, and no one is an appendage of the other.

7. Trust your intuition and sixth sense. Please face and trust your feelings.